One of the best parts of ministry, for me, is sitting down and having real conversations with members of the church. I love hearing their stories—stories about their lives, their faith, and the people who have shaped them. Recently, while Anna was waiting for her brother Steve, we started talking about the flowers at Broad Street UMC. We talked about how they always seemed to grace the altar so beautifully and how much love and care went into making that happen in the past. That’s when I learned about her mother, Betty.
Betty wasn’t just the person who ordered the flowers or knew who to call—she turned that role into a ministry. For Betty, it was never just about flowers. It was about people. She used her role to check in on others, to show she cared, and to share God’s love in quiet but powerful ways. The flowers she placed on the altar were more than decorations—they were an extension of her faith and her love for the church community.
One thing I found especially touching was how Betty would take pictures of the altar flowers and send a printed photo to the person who had donated them. Along with the photo, she’d include a thank-you note so they could see how beautiful the arrangement looked on the altar and feel appreciated for their gift. It was such a thoughtful gesture, and it showed how much Betty valued people’s contributions.
Anna shared some other beautiful stories about her mother. One that really stood out was from when Betty was in the hospital. The children of the church had sent her drawings to brighten her spirits, and one of them was a traced hand with the words “high five” written on it. Anna said that simple gesture became a powerful witness to everyone who entered Betty’s hospital room. It was a reminder of the love and connection that exists in our church family, and it brought so much joy, not just to Betty but to all who saw it.
There was another moment Anna shared that touched my heart. While Betty was in the hospital, Anna traced a cross of water on her forehead—a small act of love and prayer. Later, when Anna stepped out of the room, the CNA caring for Betty came out to tell her how much she had enjoyed their conversation about Baptism. Even in that difficult time, Betty’s faith was shining through. Her kindness and her willingness to talk about her faith left an impression on everyone she met.
BLB: Be Like Betty. Betty lived her faith every day. Whether she was healthy or ill, working or resting, she let God’s love flow through her words and actions. Her life was a beautiful example of kindness, generosity, and unwavering faith.
We can all learn something from Betty’s example. Sharing God’s love doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s often the small, everyday gestures that leave the biggest impact—a kind word, a thoughtful action, or simply being present for someone. These are the moments that create a legacy, one that touches not just our families but everyone we meet.
If you’d like to help with the flower ministry, we would love to have you as our “flower person.” It’s such a meaningful way to serve the church and bring joy to others. Just reach out to me, and I’d be happy to get you started.
Let’s strive to be like Betty—with kindness, faith, and love in everything we do. And in doing so, we’ll leave a legacy that reflects God’s love—a legacy that truly lasts. See you Sunday!
Peace, Pastor Tracy